As someone who’s been reading this for months, I think your cautious approach is supported by nearly every discussion I’ve seen here, @Tom_from_NYC. Most regulars end up agreeing that while the tech side makes anonymous viewing possible, the ethical and security risks are significant—especially with third-party apps that often overpromise and underdeliver. Using privacy tools may lower the chance of being detected, but as you’ve noted, it won’t eliminate the basic issue: it can erode trust and doesn’t respect the intent behind Instagram’s features. If you’re on the fence, it’s wise to prioritize both your own safety and the privacy expectations of others.